Theophilus Pollard (1795-1872) – a Quaker bigamist

Liz Field, New South Wales Regional Meeting

In a visit to the Friends section at Cornelian Bay cemetery the graves of Theophilus Henry Pollard, and his wife, Jane Dixon Pollard caught my eye, probably because of the surname, Pollard. (Apparently no relation, though, to our Friend Mary Pollard) I discovered that Theophilus was the grandson of another Theophilus, who had migrated to Australia in about 1831. In my last visit to Tasmania, I went to the old Friends’ cemetery in West Hobart (now Friends Park) and discovered there the headstone for Theophilus Pollard, as well a son, Henry Llewellyn Pollard. There are brief notes about the elder Theophilus in the “Quaker Arrivals before 1862” section of the Dictionary of Australian Quaker Biography (DAQB), and these (together with other information gleaned from the internet) inspired me to try to flesh them out. So here goes:

Theophilus was born on 29 December 1795, in Horsham, Sussex, son of Quakers Samuel and Catherine, of Dorking and Horsham Monthly Meeting. In 1818, he married Ann Lidbetter in Brighton, England, and about then, transferred his membership to Lewes and Chichester Monthly Meeting. With Ann, Theophilus had four children, Ann born in 1820, Theo. Sylvanus born in 1821, Henry Llewellyn, born in 1826, and David, born and died in 1828.

When he married Ann he was described as a farmer at Piddinghoe, which is a little east of Brighton. By 1825 he owned a brewery in Brighton (perhaps his farm had grown barley or hops, or he had ceased to be a farmer), but unfortunately became bankrupt in that year and the business was sold. This had repercussions for him as a Quaker, and he was disowned by the Monthly Meeting for “failure to pay just debts.”

His wife then transferred her membership and that of the three surviving children to Southwark Monthly Meeting. This is in London, so it seems that the family moved there. Theophilus was employed as a gravedigger at the Friends Whitechapel Burial Grounds and was replaced in 1832. Quite a comedown from farming and brewing!

In about 1833 he migrated to Australia, with his daughter Ann, aged about twelve at the time. His wife, and the two boys remained in England, with the boys going to the Friends School in Croydon, as had Ann.

In 1834, Theo. was admitted to membership in Hobart, “having made full acknowledgement to his Monthly Meeting of his delinquencies” (Quote from George W. Walker).

His membership lasted no more than twelve months, for in January 1835 he married Elizabeth Warren in an Anglican Church and was once again disowned by the Society for “marrying out”

But worse was to come!! At the date of that marriage, his first wife was still alive, though an invalid at the Retreat. James Backhouse reported this back to Walker who wrote “This is indeed very trying and will shake the very foundations of this in profession with us in Van Diemens Land”.

 

George Washington Walker did not approve.

Walker wrote more than this. He sent a three-page letter to Theophilus which says amongst other things “thou hast brought a cloud of darkness over the minds of thy friends…, and ‘the wrath of God.’” He exhorts him to renounce his sin lest he be cast into hell-fire! He also suggests finding a place for his young daughter Ann, now aged fifteen, to board, lest she be “contaminated … and induced to swerve from the paths of virtue.”

He followed this up with a fourteen-page letter to Ann encouraging her to find lodgings with a respectable family and reminding her that Elizabeth was not her step-mother nor her father’s wife, but his mistress! (George’s underlining!)

The letter includes eight pages of advice on living a virtuous life in “habitual fear of God”, “communion with the Holy Spirit”, “the blessing of a clear conscience”, “of simple and modest dress”, and finally the hope that her membership of the Society is by convincement and not just by education”

 

It is amazing that both of these letters have been kept and preserved and are available on-line to read in full!

After this, Theophilus travelled to Sydney, applied two or three times for re-instatement over the years and was refused each time. With Elizabeth, he had nine more children, none of whom appear to have remained in the Society. In fact one of them resigned to become a Methodist Minister.

He seems to have moved about between Tasmania (Van Diemen’s Land then of course) and Victoria. He finally achieved re-instatement in 1860 in Melbourne, a minute stating “his span of life remaining necessarily short”. In fact he lived another twelve years and died in Hobart in 1872, at the Friends Meeting House in Murray Street, Hobart.

Meanwhile, Ann must have taken Walker’s advice, for she was welcomed into Kelvedon, the Cotton family’s home. This was a centre of Quaker life, and Monthly Meetings were held there at the time. In 1839, she married Robert Andrew Mather in the Sydney meeting House as he had moved to Sydney. They returned to Hobart a few years later and were active members of Hobart Meeting until his death in 1884, and her death in 1892. They are both buried in the Quaker section of the Cornelian Bay cemetery.

Ann Mather, nee Pollard, in later life.

Henry Llewellyn was one of the two sons who remained in England. His wife died in 1892, and he then migrated to Tasmania, and lived with his nephews, sons of Ann and Robert Mather, until his death in 1907.

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  1. Liz Field

    I hope Friends realise that the large picture at the head of this story is not me, nor Theophilus, but his daughter Ann in later years!

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