May 072012
 
David Purnell, Yearly Meeting Planning Committee.

 

Arscott House

Arscott House

In January 2013 Yearly Meeting will be held in Canberra, hosted by Canberra Regional Meeting. We look forward to welcoming you at the beginning of our centenary year as the capital city of Australia.

The University of Canberra in Belconnen will be the venue, from Saturday 5th to Saturday 12th January. Friends will be encouraged to arrive on the afternoon of 5th and depart after lunch on 12th January. The University has grown rapidly in recent years and now has around 13,000 students during the academic year. It is located 8kms to the north-west of Civic Centre in Canberra, near Lake Ginninderra and the Belconnen Town Centre. Parking should be readily available at that time of year, and cycle paths are nearby. Frequent bus services travel between the University and Civic Centre.

Most activities each day will be held at the conference centre (Building 2) of the University, which is close to the main Refectory area and next to a large courtyard with grass, shrubs and trees in profusion. This will allow for outdoor use when desired or needed. There will be space for an art exhibition in the conference centre. The Backhouse Lecture by Jocelyn Bell Burnell will be given in the large lecture theatre in the conference centre.

The main accommodation offered will be at a residential college called Arscott House run by the Students’ Association and situated on Aikman Drive, near Lake Ginninderra, on the western edge of the campus. Single rooms will be available there, with some flexibility for small children to share a room with a parent. The cost is expected to be $54 a day bed and breakfast, with linen supplied. There is an early deadline (1 September) for confirming bookings at Arscott House.

The Canberra Motor Village in Dryandra St, Lyneham (4.5kms from the University of Canberra) offers cabins which will accommodate several people, from around $130 a night (3 people). Caravan sites with power cost $35 a night, and tents on unpowered sites $25 a night. Early bookings are essential for that time of year. Go to www.canberravillage.com.au . Billeting options will be explored and made known later. The nearest hotel is the Quality Inn in Benjamin Way, Belconnen, and the standard single room rate there is around $130 a night.

Specific plans will be made for the children and Junior Young Friends during the week. We expect that Young Friends will also be closely involved. There will be provision for extended free time and/or outings one afternoon during the week. Time will be allocated for Share and Tell sessions.

Catering for lunch and dinner will be arranged with the Refectory at the University, and will allow for a range of diets to be covered. Breakfasts will be available as part of the accommodation at Arscott House. Morning and afternoon teas will be served by our volunteers in the conference centre.

Summer School will focus on the theme of achieving a peaceful and sustainable Australia. The Quaker Peace and Legislation Committee (QPLC) and YM Earthcare Committee will organise the Summer School, as they are preparing a blueprint for Australian Friends to consider and adopt at Yearly Meeting. Details of the draft blueprint will be circulated with Documents in Advance. The committees welcome creative contributions to the overall theme, and invite anyone willing to lead a session on a particular aspect to contact the conveners – Brian Turner at: brianturner@netspeed,com.au or Vidya at Vidya.sutton@finance.gov.au.

Friends are asked to bear several points in mind:

The booking requirements for Arscott House mean that we will need definite numbers by the beginning of September. Registration arrangements will take this into account, and will be sent to RM Clerks in the coming months.

The distance between Arscott House and the conference venue will mean a walk of around 10 to 15 minutes each way. Transport will be available for those needing it.

Feb 282012
 
John Michaelis, New South Wales Regional Meeting

Overview:Quaker Skype

Concern for earth care, the cost and time of travel are strong motivators for Quakers to supplement face-to-face meetings with alternative methods of meeting using phone conference calling or the Internet. Combinations of Internet, phone and face-to face meetings can allow the participation of people who are not able or willing to set themselves up with the latest technology. These alternative ways to meet are always cheaper than driving or travelling by public transport.

Building a sense of Worship

In my experience of using phone and Internet conferencing for AVP and Quaker committees a concern has been to establish and maintain the sense of connection, worship and caring for each other that is so important in any Quaker gathering. I have found some processes very useful.

I begin with a round of “What’s on top” or “What’s uppermost on your mind at the moment”. This takes the place of the chit-chat that naturally occurs between Friends before the start of a meeting and helps put aside the thoughts that preoccupy us, enabling us to be more fully present. It helps build empathy among the Friends attending. We then move into a time of silence and begin the meeting out of the silence as is normal Quaker practice. When formal process is needed the convener can ask Friends to type a request to speak in the message box. Friends can type in a message box to raise questions of process, or as the online equivalent of raising your hand.

How to structure a call:

In the paragraphs below I outline methods that I and others have tried and tested over more than 100 committee meetings, internationally, within Australia and around Sydney.

The latest version of Skype – a free Microsoft product that facilitates conference calling on the web and between phones – seems to provide better quality sound in most situations than phone conferencing, is easier to manage and is free for those with access to an Internet connection. For those with no Internet access, Skype allows free or low cost connections via phone. If you need to include Friends with mobile phones, the quality is reduced and the cost is higher. Google+ Hangout is a recent alternative to Skype, but is not reviewed in this article.

Getting Skype to work for the first time requires some setting up as described below:-

To prepare:

  • A headset with microphone is preferred. The A 4 Tech HS-7P. described here is an example. A laptop with an internal microphone plus earphones will work but background noise may be higher. Loudspeakers cause echo or feedback and should be avoided! If a headset is not immediately available, turn the loudspeaker volume as low as possible, don’t put the microphone near the loudspeaker and mute your microphone unless you are speaking.
  • Download the latest version of Skype and set it to upgrade automatically in the future. Skype is available for Windows, Mac and other operating systems.
  • If you are new to Skype, choose a Skype name to identify yourself (you will be asked for one as part of the Skype installation process).
  • After you install Skype, call a friend or use the automatic test call option (Call ‘Echo / Sound Test Service’ in your Skype contacts).
  • The committee must choose someone to host the call and at least one backup host (see below). Each host should email their Skype name and email address to all committee members.
  • Important: Add each host Skype name to your contact list well in advance of the meeting (click the ‘Contacts’ tab at the top and choose ‘Add a contact’). Each time you add a contact, Skype will send a message to that contact. The hosts must accept your request before they can include you a call.
  • If you add a photograph then during the call your photograph is displayed and highlighted when you speak. This allows Friends to see who is speaking. Click the Skype tab (top left), select ‘Profile’ and add or change your photo.

At the time of the call:

  • Be on-time! Late arrivals may need to be added separately to call.
  • Try to be in a quiet environment. Switch other phones to silent
  • Don’t use video. It degrades the call.
  • If you are late and come on line the system may add you automatically. If not, send an instant message (IM) to the host – Right click on the host’s contact and choose ‘Send IM’. The host will add you to the call. Avoid calling the host on Skype – it interrupts the call.
  • If you are disconnected, wait patiently for reconnection.
  • If you are in a noisy environment or are interrupted, mute your microphone! (click the microphone symbol at the bottom next to the + sign). Don’t forget to un-mute when you wish to speak.
  • If there is an agenda or minutes for the call, have them available.

If you must attend by telephone:

  • Ensure that all the hosts have your phone number and area-code well in advance of the call.
  • If you have access to a land-line, use it. The sound is much better than a mobile phone and the call is less expensive.
  • If you use a cordless or mobile phone, please make sure the battery is fully charged.
  • Be ready on time and wait for the host to call you. In case of problems, try to have a back-up communication option to the host/s, such as texting between mobile phones.
  • If you drop off the call, wait for the host to call you back or contact them using your back-up communication.

Hosting:

Don’t bother with this section unless you have been asked to host a call!

  • One person should host the call but there should be at least one back-up host in case one is unavailable or has Internet connection problems.
  • In addition to all the recommendations for participants stated above, all the hosts should:
  • Determine who will be on the call – you don’t want to ring people who cannot attend, particularly if their connection is by phone.
  • Well in advance of the call, send an email to all participants with each of the hosts Skype names and instructions how to add the hosts as contacts. When participants do so, a message is sent to each host. Press the contact Request button above the contact list to see the requests and accept all the valid requests. Check that you have requests from everyone and chase up those who haven’t sent a request. Once this is done it doesn’t need to be repeated unless there are new participants or new hosts.
  • Before each call, each host must set-up or update the group, even if you are a backup host.
  • Use the ‘Group’ button next to the ‘Add a contact’ button underneath the contact list.
  • If you need to include people who only have a telephone connection you must buy some Skype credit. Typically a call may cost anything from zero to a couple of dollars. You may set this up is to arrange automatic top-up in case credit runs out mid-call. Computer-to-computer calls are free, as are most Computer-to-phone-landlines that are in the same country as the host. Computer-to mobiles are more expensive. The prices can be checked on-line.
  • If your committee meets frequently, you can open a dedicated Skype account paid for by the committee. This can be used by whoever is hosting the call.
  • Familiarise yourself with the operation of Skype. Set up a test call between the hosts to achieve this. Find out how to add people to the call (the large + sign at the bottom of the call window). If people call in that you want to include, there is an ‘Add-to-conference’ button when you answer their call.
  • It is more flexible to add separate contacts for participant’s phones than to add their phone numbers to their normal Skype contacts.
  • I enter participant’s Skype names and phone numbers as separate contacts, so that Skype does not automatically divert to phone if someone is not online.
  • Start on time. If the call begins late, participants start calling to see what the problem is and chaos can ensue. If the host does not begin on time a backup host should initiate the call.

These processes will help Friends enjoy fruitful committee meetings and help all of us care for our planet. Most of this article has focused on techniques, but the technology is useful only if it enhances the working of a committee, and enables us to conduct meetings in a Quakerly manner. We are adapting Quaker process to benefit from new opportunities for communication among friends.

Feb 012012
 


AYMsession-P-M_MoscropTo all Friends everywhere, warm greetings from Friends in Australia. We pay our respects to the Elders of the Indigenous people of the Bibbulmun country —past, present and future—upon whose land we are gathered for our Yearly Meeting, 7–14 January 2012, at Christ Church Grammar School, Claremont in Perth, Western Australia.

The significance of this place, on the cliffs overlooking Derbal Yarragan (the Swan River Estuary), was brought home to us in the ‘welcome to country’ by Noongar elder, Noel Nannup, who traced the traditional trails of Indigenous learning, healing and cultural activity that coalesced around our place of meeting.

Sandra Hill, a Yorga (woman) told the sorry story, documented in the bureaucratese of letters and memos, of the continuing injustice visited upon her family, over successive generations.

By contrast, our Donald Groom Fellow, Maggie White, has shown us ways in which Indigenous communities may be empowered through a ‘whole of life’ approach.

As we have gazed out to the blue waters and sky of the Estuary, we have pondered and explored the requirement of ‘what does love require of us’ as individuals and as a community of Friends.

As noted in the State of the Society address, the reports that appear in our Documents in Advance show us to be an ambitious group.

But given our small numbers and the wide range of issues we have embraced, we face the challenges of managing the competition for time. How do we create the space for engagement in social witness and for the nurture of the soul so that, in the words of Meister Eckhart, time is not ‘what keeps the light from reaching us’. This subject is one that has recurred repeatedly, like the theme in a fugue, over the course of our Yearly Meeting.

There was space for nurture of the artistic soul during the Fine Arts Day, held prior to Yearly Meeting, through the creative experience in a number of different forms. The theme of ‘what does love require of us’ was further explored, spiritually and practically, in the various Summer Schools. Both of these activities contributed to preparing our hearts and minds for the work ahead.

A concern that we have pursued is to weave stronger threads across the various levels of our Quaker structures in order to communicate effectively and ensure that our energies are efficiently applied. We have embraced the power of technology to provide an on-­‐line edition of The Australian Friend, and we are also reaching out to the wider world with the newly launched Quaker Voice website and the first live-streamed Backhouse Lecture.

The Burundi Peace Choir demonstrated the healing power of singing as they welcomed us all to the Backhouse Lecture.

In this lecture, David Atwood (see picture), the former Director of the Quaker United Nations Office in Geneva, reminded us that the task of peace building is long haul-work; cathedral-building in time and scope.

However, in the Lecture we were shown the results that a small Quaker presence in Geneva and New York have accomplished in areas such as small armaments, the banning of anti-personnel mines, and defining peacemaking at the United Nations and beyond.

This gives us reason to be hopeful of what can be achieved if we strive together in what an earlier Quaker, Duncan Wood, described as ‘building the institutions of peace’.

Our deliberations have also been enriched by the presence of our AYM Visitor, Arbiter Simorangkir from Indonesia who has told us of the challenges of Friends’ witness in Indonesia. Some of us are preparing for the World Conference of Friends in Kenya by exploring the theme of ‘salt and light.

As in the Friends in Stitches project, where panels are emerging with greater depth and clarity from one Yearly Meeting to the next, we are seeing the weaving together of threads of earlier initiatives. The Silver Wattle Quaker Centre, on the shores of Weereewa (Lake George) in New South Wales, continues to develop and is offering a wide range of activities for 2012, including The Ministry of Healing, Connecting with Australia’s First Peoples, and youth peace education.

We have also appointed a Peace and Earthcare Worker, Robert Howell from Aotearoa/New Zealand Yearly Meeting, to deepen our work in peace and social justice and our care for the Earth. Robert will explore the various drivers that underlie threats to global wellbeing, violent conflict and environmental degradation. We see clearly the need for us to define a flourishing life, one of joy and meaning that lives within the finite boundaries of the Earth.

Our Yearly Meeting was enhanced by the presence and informal ministry of the children, Junior Young Friends and Young Friends as they brought joy to our lives. We were also able to reflect upon the inspirational example of those who have recently passed away.

We have been blessed with many initiatives to seek new Light; nurtured and strengthened to wrestle with new truths. We have faith that new energy will emerge, enabling us, in the words of our Backhouse Lecturer, ‘to practise the Gospel of Hope, leave despair and complacency behind us and get down to work’.

Jul 072011
 

The theme for Yearly Meeting 2012 is ‘What does love require of us’ and we are using this also for Summer School. A number of  Friends in WARM have offered to facilitate groups and we are now ready to receive offers from the wider AYM community.

Summer School will occupy the whole of the Sunday. Some groups may wish to continue to meet throughout the week and a  time will be set aside for this. Please take a little time to consider what you might like to share with a small group of F/friends. We  would like to know:

  • your proposed topic
  • a brief synopsis of the content
  • maximum number of participant
  • are children welcome?
  • do you have special requirements e.g. outside access, facilities for artwork, or music?

You may not be able to answer all the questions above immediately but we would like you to let us know that you are thinking  about it!

Full information will be required for the September edition of The Australian Friend, deadline 1 August.

For further information please do not hesitate to contact one of the following:

  • Jo Vallentine  jovall(at)iinet.net.au 08 9272 4252
  • Ruth Watson  daru(at)iinet.net.au 08 9842 2604
  • Ann Zubrick  qzubrick(at)wantree.com.au 089339 3725
Jul 062011
 

By Fiona Gardner, Victoria Regional Meeting.

The Meeting for Learning Retreat offers Friends a year-long program with a week retreat at the beginning and end of the year. The program provides a structure within which Friends can explore and nurture their own spiritual journey, supported and enabled by each other and the facilitators.

This year the retreat week is in Hobart from Monday to Sunday, 12 — 18 September at the Maryknoll Retreat Centre at Blackman’s Bay.

Felicity Rose is half way through her year-long program, a good place to reflect:
The retreat week opened up the idea of ‘listening into being’ to me in a gentle, inspiring and loving way.

The rhythm of days of the retreat week was just right. We practised deep listening in small groups, had periods of worship,
discussion, time to relax, reflect, rest, walk on the beach and socialise.

By the time we left, we were well versed in ways to make our year between retreats a ‘growthful’ experience, and I was keen to keep the Meeting for Learning thread going. Each of us chose one of the facilitators to help us with any problems that might come up.

Many people have asked me about the one-to-four ‘projects’ we are asked to do during the year. At first, I interpreted this
in a practical way and decided to clear out old ‘stuff’ from my work area (to clarify for myself that I really have retired) and do a University of the Third Age course. Over the silent day in the middle of the retreat week these began to look more like New Year’s resolutions than what I wanted to take forward from my retreat.

I decided that it seemed more like a focus than a project: I am working towards being able to articulate why I am a Quaker and how I live it. Two off-shoot themes are to learn more of Quaker history and thought and to find the ways that this will inform my living the Quaker way in our community — the theme of the second retreat this September.

We were asked to form a support group; three to six people were suggested, to meet once a month for the year. Members of this group listen closely to what the participant is moved to share out of a preliminary silence. Participants lay down guidelines for whatever they feel will work best for them. I am most comfortable with a meeting of about one hour where, after a brief ‘hello’, we go into silence. When what I want to share has taken shape, I speak. After this, we resume our silence then usually I invite the group to ask questions or make comments. Each contribution is followed by silence, which may prompt me to share again, and so on. I don’t allow the gathering to become a discussion or a ‘fix-it’ session. I am finding it really moving and affirming to be listened to in this way, it is a great privilege.

One difficulty in having a group that can actually meet once a month is our busy lives; most of us go away quite often. At first, I (shyly) limited my group to two. By January, they were both away so I didn’t have a meeting. Now I have two more people in my group so for the next six months I should be able to have a meeting. I am very moved by the way people respond so generously.

For more details of the Meeting for Learning retreat, including costs, contact David Barry on email David.Barry.TLUD (at) gmail.com or telephone 0425 29 2288.

To explore your interest in Meeting for Learning, contact Fiona Gardner, coordinator for the facilitators: f.gardner (at) latrobe.edu.au or 03 54469951.

If you would like to read more from participants, more stories are on the Quaker Learning Australia website, http://www.qla.quakers.org.au.

Jul 062011
 


Photo of workshop participants

Respectful Relationships workshop

By Judith Pembleton,  Queensland Regional Meeting.

As a relatively new concept, promoting and protecting Respectful Relationships (RR) is still a mysterious process for many Australian Friends. In March, representatives from each regional meeting, together with the Yearly Meeting Presiding Clerk and Secretary, met for a weekend workshop in Melbourne to build common understandings.

At the beginning of the weekend, each participant shared their hopes for the weekend, and it was pleasing to see all these hopes ‘ticked’ by the end. Robin McLean of Tasmania RM, and Ronis Chapman, facilitated the workshop. They are revising the Respectful Relationships Guidelines and Manual based on feedback from the two RR workshop held so far. Being able to go through the Manual and Guidelines in detail helped build Contact Friends’ confidence to go back home and share the vision of making our Meetings safe places for all who come.

During the weekend, the participants shared some of the misunderstandings Friends have about the role of the RR contact persons, including thinking it was only about sexual misconduct, or about marital relationship breakdowns. Part of the educative role of Contact Friends is to write articles and to visit Meetings. To promote this process, they hope soon to have posters and a pamphlet based
on Britain Yearly Meeting’s Respectful Relationships but adapted for Australian conditions. There is also a publication The Wounded Meeting produced by Friends General Conference in the USA with many practical examples and stories about how they were resolved.

The role of RR Contact Friends is to provide a first contact for those who feel they have been treated disrespectfully, or who are aware of disrespectful behaviour in a Meeting. Their aim is to prevent further conflict and to help all parties in a difficult situation to continue in the Meeting. Contact Friends are neither advocates nor counsellors; they are listeners who hope to empower Friends to deal with issues themselves.

They do this by listening sympathetically but being respectful of all parties, speaking always as we would if the ‘other person’ was in the room with us. Contact Friends can offer a variety of options drawn from Quaker practice or from common sense.

Options might include to do nothing (speaking about the problem might bring fresh insight); to journal the issue and consider; to consider who in the Meeting could help (Elders, Overseers, Clerk, a Clearness Committee, or appropriate others); or to develop a ‘message’ that may
be written or spoken to the Friend when next they see them.

In discussing these options, the Contact Friend aims to help the person who has come to them to make the choice that feels comfortable to them. They can help the Friend to answer: What do we need to put in place in order to do this?

Our discussions also faced the question ‘How do we know we are doing a good job as RR Contact Friends?’ One way to find out is to keep statistics on the number of reports, types of reports (bullying,
sexual harrassment, misunderstanding, or whatever), the gender of the person who approached the Contact Friend, or possibly whether or not it concerns a relatively new Friend.

The contact persons (ideally, a man and a woman in each Regional Meeting) make up a Yearly Meeting Committee. The co-convenors are David Barry and Judith Pembleton. Robin and Ronis, as our experts in this field, are seconded members.

The Committee will aim to come together three times a year — once at a
workshop to continue the education and sharing; and through teleconferences. Contact Friends may also ‘buddy’ with someone in their own or other States to support each other through tricky issues.

The updated Guidelines and Manual will be placed on the website. The
Guidelines are for all Friends, and the Manual is to help RR Contact Friends put the Guidelines into practice.

They do this by listening sympathetically but being respectful of all parties, speaking always as we would if the ‘other person’ was in the room with us. Contact Friends can offer a variety of options drawn from Quaker practice or from common sense.

Options might include to do nothing (speaking about the problem might bring fresh insight); to journal the issue and consider; to consider who in the Meeting could help (Elders, Overseers, Clerk, a Clearness Committee, or appropriate others); or to develop a ‘message’ that may
be written or spoken to the Friend when next they see them.

In discussing these options, the Contact Friend aims to help the person who has come to them to make the choice that feels comfortable to them. They can help the Friend to answer: What do we need to put in place in order to do this?

Our discussions also faced the question ‘How do we know we are doing a good job as RR Contact Friends?’ One way to find out is to keep statistics on the number of reports, types of reports (bullying, sexual harrassment, misunderstanding, or whatever), the gender of the person who approached the Contact Friend, or possibly whether or not it concerns a relatively new Friend.

The contact persons (ideally, a man and a woman in each Regional Meeting) make up a Yearly Meeting Committee. The co-convenors are David Barry and Judith Pembleton. Robin and Ronis, as our experts in this field, are seconded members.

The Committee will aim to come together three times a year — once at a
workshop to continue the education and sharing; and through teleconferences. Contact Friends may also ‘buddy’ with someone in their own or other States to support each other through tricky issues.

The updated Guidelines and Manual will be placed on the website. The Guidelines are for all Friends, and the Manual is to help RR Contact Friends put the Guidelines into practice.

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Photo above: Respectful Relationships workshop. Left-Right: Robin McLean, Tasmania, Tessa Spratt, Victoria (host), Kerry O’Regan, South Australia, Maxine Cooper, Presiding Clerk, Beth Harcourt, West Australia, Ronis Chapman, Canberra, Beryl Homes, Victoria, David Barry, South Australia and Judith Pembleton, Queensland (co-convenors), Acey Teasdale, New South Wales and Susan Addison, AYM Secretary (partly obscured). Photo by Anthony Arden, Queensland RM.